Have you heard the phrase that you must date someone for a full year before you truly know them? The phrase supposedly means that you go through four seasons to really get to know someone. I’m not sure how true it is but I believe that people go through changes just like the seasons.
When I went through a season of change from being married to divorce and then dating and being in a relationship I swear it was seasons before I found peace. I learned how men change with the seasons and I learned about cuffing season which I had never heard of. Getting to know someone and going through season changes allows you to really see who they are throughout the year.
Mr. C and I have been dating for two years and in a relationship for the last year and I noticed how he changed with the seasons. Not in a bad way just his personality tends to flow with the change of the seasons. He’s happier and more vibrant and playful during the summer. During the spring and in the fall he’s cool, calm and more laid-back. In the winter months he tends to be more exhausted and want to stay indoors because he hates the cold so no ice skating, no outside dates, not even walking around outside for long periods. He changes like the seasons but I not in a bad way. It’s in a way that I get to know him and I’m sure if you asked him the same thing he did say that my personality sort of follows the seasons as well.
On this 19th day of my #23daysofthankfulness, I’m thankful for the seasons. The seasons changing, the way we respond to it and for finding love and experience in it all year through. Be thankful for the seasons.
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I just heard this for the first time a few weeks ago
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Really? Do you believe it?
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No but I’ve often heard 90 days thrown around…
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LOL, for sexing. But, dating someone a full year before thinking about marriage because people change with the seasons. By dating them during the seasonal changes you can figure out do you like them the same in the different seasons. But, 90 days is just for sexing. It doesn’t affect the behavior of the man. I’ve made men wait 9 months and they’ve shown their butts after hitting it.
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Shown their butts? I must remember that phrase? 🙄
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Did you release this by mistake? Seems like your thought isn’t finished.
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I did. I finished it. Been laid up most of the weekend and forgot to finish writing. Thank you!
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I haven’t heard the word cuffing in so long! Lol. I remember those days though!
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Yep. Men who were somewhat interested wanted to show full own interest now that it was cold.
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Of course! We all know what they really wanted. 🐷🐶
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It’s certainly true. We all have seasons that coincide with nature and/or with the climate of our lives.
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Yes, Lord. Never realized it until I got older.
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I haven’t heard the analogy of the seasons so thank you. It’s an interesting way of thinking about the rhythms of life.
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You’re so welcome.
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Thanks Lisa!
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Thank you!
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