I have to tell you that my family is dysfunctional. My parents were kids when I was born. They didn’t know what they hell they were doing. They made many mistakes. I hated them both at different points in my life.
But, I’m thankful for them. I’m thankful for their DNA and for their ability to raise happy and healthy children despite a whole host of issues. Even though I struggle with my feelings towards my dad, I know that I wouldn’t exist without him. I see parts of him in my attitude and behavior. I am thankful for him.
I have a lot of my mom in me. I am my mother’s child. I realized that the things that I was telling my son she had said to me. Words and phrases that were interspersed into teachable moments. She really has grown on me and her and Munch are super close now. I am thankful for her.
I am thankful for the struggles and strength of my parents. It is never easy raising children. You do the best you can and hope that you don’t mess them up. They did. Individually. I understand that now.
It’s not about being a perfect parent. That’s impossible. Just be there. That’s half the job of parenting. Love and be there for your children. No matter how messed up you think your life is, your children need you. The real you. It is Day 13 and I’m thankful for my parents in my #23daysofthankfulness.
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Its the cycle of life. Growing up we hate our parents and think they are the worse then we grow up and become parents ourselves and realize they did the best they could as it’s not easy and we learn to appreciate them.
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Absolutely. They didn’t know what the hell they were doing until we realize that we don’t know what we’re doing. We turned out fine so maybe they weren’t that bad. LOL.
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My thoughts exactly and you learn from their mistakes
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I am thankful for my parents too. They taught me how to be selfless because that’s how they were towards me and my brothers.
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Yes, I love it.
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