Just Me

I want to welcome my new followers. This blog is a collection of my thoughts, dreams, aspirations, parenting, social and dating experiences. My high horse journalistic point of view. I blog about things that affect me as a mom, woman, black person, Christian, etc or just topics that I find interesting.



So, I thought I would tell you a few things about me:

  • I’m a feminist. Black feminist. Why do I say a black feminist? Because I’m black and a feminist. I support the equality of women, but I can’t help but feel that black women have continually been left out of the movements in which we support. I want to change that.


  • I’m a mom to a beautiful boy who helps me to realize that my life matters more because I have him looking up to me. He’s 7. He speaks French. He loves soccer. He’s not athletic. He’s still innocent. He hasn’t been tarnished by the “real” world yet.


  • I love sci-fi and Prince. Yep, it’s a weird combination and some would say that I’m nerdy. Probably. But, honestly you can’t go wrong with an episode of The Walking Dead and screaming “I would die for you” at the top of your lungs.



  • I am a woman of faith and that faith is the foundation of everything in my life. You may see me write a post about church or God to remind folks to appreciate the awesomeness of God and being able to express that love. I have a wonderful church that I’ve attended for the last 25 years and I thank God daily that my son was blessed and baptized in my home church. My munch even sings in the church choir.



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  • I’m a southern girl. Born and raised. I love pork, but won’t eat a lot of fried foods (think high cholesterol). I love tea but will drink it unsweetened instead of the typical sweet tea (think diabetes). But, my attitude is friendly and I have a southern accent with a southern mentality.



So welcome and enjoy and please feel free to comment. I love the interaction from fellow bloggers. I am truly grateful that you chose to follow me.


At-il comprendre le concept de français?

The school year is coming to an end and munch’s school had its annual Awards and Promotion Ceremony. Yes, it seems overkill to some, but to a mom of only one I love ceremonies. Nope, I am not one of those parents who comes to school with balloons and flowers for my first grader, I just cheer loudly.

I was sitting in the cafeteria, smiling as the children filed in hoping and praying that my munch would win some awards. Why? Because I want to boast and brag and have a certificate to back it up? Crazy? Probably. But, nonetheless I am one of those parents.

In March, I had a parent teacher conference with munch’s teacher and I asked her”At-il comprendre le concept de français?” translation: Does he understand the concept of french? His teacher thought hard and said, “I can’t say whether he understands it or not. He’s inconsistent.” She went on to explain that she will give him an assignment and he will do it correctly, but four hours later she could give the same exact assignment and he will cry and say he doesn’t know how to do it.

Overkill huh? My son is very dramatic. He gets it honestly though. I’m a little dramatic. I explained that his dad and I experience the same thing when reviewing his homework and we are seeing that he lacks focus and consistency. I told her that we are working on it and pray that it is just a phase. Whew! This boy.

So, I left not being surprised, but praying that my son will finish off the year on a good note. This is the last year that he will not have the traditional A/B/C/D/E grading scale. I started thinking what if munch doesn’t get it? What if I’m pushing him too hard? I mean it was my choice to put him in a French Immersion program. Did I make the right choice?

My worrying was for nothing because it worked out. He passed to the second grade. Got his certificate and medal and made me proud. Not because I expect a genius, but because he tried his best and it paid off. Life isn’t about being the best, but trying your best. That’s our motto. Try your best and have fun doing it. It allows you to count your blessings.

Munch with his principal, Dr. Essama! I love her. I actually wanted him to attend the school after meeting her. She’s brilliant. She’s leaving at the end of the school year though.

If you have time, please check out his class performance in French by clicking on the video below:

Until next time!