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Dating in 2015

Dating in 2015 has been an adventure to say the least. There were some hits and some misses and some roads not traveled. There were good times, bad times and heck some times I don’t know how to describe other than thankfully I survived.

I met some great guys and some not so great guys but I chalk it up to life and experiences. I wish everyone only the best. Just because we couldn’t make a connection doesn’t mean that it was a wasted situation. It just means that our time has passed and we were not to be. LOL.

To end the year on a positive note, I want you to check out this conversation below from a potential suitor earlier this month. Needless to say that I didn’t respond. Why? Because I don’t want to. I don’t have to. I will not be responding to annoying things in 2016. I will just pass on foolish behavior.


The weird thing is that he went from 0 to 5 for no reason and I took this as a sign of mental instability or incompatibility. I can’t figure out which, but I’m okay either way. I wish him much success in his future endeavors and I hope that he finds what he’s looking for because it is not me.

So to all my single friends, may you find love, peace, happiness and compatibility in 2016. May you find the one that makes you see the good in yourself and encourages you to be better each and every day. May you find a love that is magnified and endures each and every day. May you know that happiness is a choice and if you choose happy you will be great with or without someone. Cheers my friend!



  1. Wow, I think, it is safe to say he was crazy LOL! Don’t you love it when someone shows you themselves without you having to do a thing? I love how you said happiness is a choice. One thing that many fail to realize is that a person cannot make you happy, you must be happy first before they come into your life. Great post!

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  2. Glad you deleted that guy, sounds kind of nuts to me! i wish I could find a nice man, thought I had the last time but as I’m sure you can tell from my poems, I didn’t … I really love Rodney but he is not who he presents himself to be and has really destroyed my heart so… guess I best get used to being alone for a long time… don’t know how to trust again or where to look but to all of you lovely ladies, Happy New Year and may we all find a man who truly deserves us and will treat us right! We can only hope 🙂

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  3. Aw poor guy. He tried and failed. You are better than me though because after that first message, I don’t know if I would’ve responded at all unless he was very cute. I am a little shallow that way. lol Anyway, this is the exact reason why my ass is not on any online dating sites. I tried a few times and it just didn’t feel right in my spirit so I passed. It was fun browsing though. It’s like browsing through books on Amazon… well sorta. Anyway as a single woman, I wish the same for you and thank you!

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